Hi Lee! Glad you're going to the picnic and having fun. You're doing great, keep up the patience. Your H is feeling the natural consequences of some of his choices, and he needs to work through it on his own. I know it's difficult, but necessary for both him and you. Advice to me from my C………
"Get focused on taking care of you. You need to be OK in order for your partner to get through her stuff".
I'm glad you're not stressing about the ex-ow thing. I seriously doubt that any time they may spend together would be pleasant or comfortable.
Your positives are great, keep them in mind. Keep up the good work, my friend! Have fun this weekend!!
JJ
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