You need to be patient. I know, I know, I am one to talk. Have either of you filed for the D? There is still hope. It has taken me several months to accept what has happened in my marraige and it still seems like a horrible nighmare at times. Have you had a chance to talk to your H? Is he interesed at all? When the bomb drops it just takes time to get your head screwed on straight and thinking more clearly. His pain in tremendous and he needs time to deal with this problem and get his mind around what happened. Right now if he shows any intrest just be loving and totally honest with him. Don't be pushy.
Married 11 years, together 15
Two Daughters 6 and 2
D-day Jan.14 2006
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