HI grasshopper...thanks for everything. I just feel really lousy and helpless. H wants a D and he dont want any counselling but out. I can't force him and I know have to set him free. I have told him these few days what we lack in the marriage, the problems we have and what we can do to make it work....he just want a D.
I will just wait patiently for him to recover...till the day he find another women I will just wait for his recovery. This is the only thing I can do now.