I feel pretty good. I have stayed dim (meaning I am not calling or emailing him at all, and keeping it light- letting him do the reaching) And he IS reaching, there seems to be a differnece in him and neither of us know why. (Not that we talked OR ) But it's nice, and I'm really ok with not questioning him about it right now. Is this truly detached? Have I reached it? The extent of OR has been that we both acknowledge he's confused and giving mixed signals- but he's also speaking a lot with actions- called lat night twice- first to say goodnight then 2nd time to say he missed me a lot and ask me to go spend the night. He's smiling a lot, being romantic and complimenting me a lot.
And JJ- I am really keeping it light and trying to tell jokes, but I'm not great at it. The attempt makes us both laugh, though... Got any?
) But it's nice, and I'm really ok with not questioning him about it right now. Is this truly detached? Have I reached it? The extent of OR has been that we both acknowledge he's confused and giving mixed signals- but he's also speaking a lot with actions- called lat night twice- first to say goodnight then 2nd time to say he missed me a lot and ask me to go spend the night. He's smiling a lot, being romantic and complimenting me a lot. 
