Hi, thanks for the link and encouragement. My marriage problem is no communication and no quality time together. He is always busy , physically present mentally elsewhere. Sometimes I am wondreing if we are not meant to be as i require alot of attention and he can only give me so much. I am moving out today to leave him alone, the feeling is horrible but i guess this is my punishment. Will have to be patient and wait for his recovery, thanks again for your time to read and reply.