That is great progress RB, a happy post. It is wonderful that your W is going to go to individual C. I am sure it will benefit her and your sitch. She may even be able to figure out why she has such low self esteem and therefore why she believes and acts out that she doesn't deserve you. I think you are doing everything just right, RB. I am sure your calm demeanor and your loving (but firm) approach is making a big difference right now. I hope the D thing will proceed slowly enough that your W will be able to have an epiphany before it is too late.


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When one door of happiness closes, another one opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. - Helen Keller