Before the new beginning- need advice

[Jamesjohn]

Lee - I do think what you're saying makes sense. Any and/or all of the plans you talk about sound fine to me. Changes don't always have to be drastic to be effective, they just have to be something different. Just pay attention to what the results are.

I'm glad you're not letting his drama get to you, and still want to let him reach for you. Don't reach out your hand too far, at this point he needs to meet you MORE than halfway. Above all, keep your strength, and let him work things out on his own. Don't fall into his pity party. He will do better if you are up, strong, happy, and don't feed his depression. Learn a few new jokes that you can tell him, maybe just to change the subject of you need to. His problems are his, not yours. Be strong, my friend! And have a GREAT weekend!