All of this sounds VERY good. I went to a lawyer today too, who explained to me the difference between being remorseful (which my H is) and repenting (which H has not). I am going to be proceeding with a time line and consequences, forward moving process also. I will post more of that a bit later on my own thread. Of course in CA, we have no such thing as a covenant marriage, but I guess in my case it wouldn't have made a difference anyway since my H has not wanted to end the M quickly. I, however, as you, want a whole and healthy marriage. I am excited for you. I think you are right, there is a good possibility your W will repent rather than lose you - especially with OM far away and you looking better than ever with job, apartment, etc. Let alone your impeccable character and commitment and values. I will be with you every step of the way. I am proud of you, RB. You are awesome.
PositivelyListening ************************************** When one door of happiness closes, another one opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. - Helen Keller
