((((((((RB))))))))) I just wanted you to know I am here, and am sending you love and blessings at this time. I understand. I know these next steps on the road will not be easy either. You must follow your innner guidance. I trust you are sure this is your inner guidance, and not just human impatience? Timing (right timing for you) is important in order to feel complete. Of course even your human needs must be listened to at a certain point - we are all human after all
Have you decided how you are going to proceed? Talk w/ W first, interview lawyers, file on your own? Just want to encourage you to remain solution focused and not to let the emotions take over, because this will be hard too. I am sorry. I know you are sad. You are an amazing human being, a wonderful father, and you have been a great husband and will be that again someday under different circumstances. I trust that your way is being revealed, and that all is for good.
It might be good to acknowledge in writing what you have learned and all you have done to grow yourself during this past year. It has been a painful year, a long haul, but there are many many successes and rewards that I have seen for you. It has been my privilege to be included on your journey thus far. I send you my hugs and prayers, and one for your litle D too.
PositivelyListening ************************************** When one door of happiness closes, another one opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. - Helen Keller
