Clueless. For sure RB. And from the sounds of it, not ready to face how much she has hurt you yet. Sorry. But I believe she told the truth to D4. I believe she wants you back, but thinks too little of herself to believe she deserves you. She's still in a fog. Detachment RB. And a dose of patience I know sometimes you just want to shake her up, huh? I keep looking for the magic fog-lifting spray in the store, I could spray it on H when he arrived and magic ! I could make a mint if I could be the inventor or distributor for that.

Hang in there RB. You are doing great. Look at the positive here! Listen to what she said to D4! Instead of being so skeptical, what if your W was hoping D4 would tell you, because she knows she can't tell you herself right now. It is the same kind of positive like when they say they don't want a D. Deep inside, she wants to be your W. She just needs to figure out how to feel good enough about herself to get there. Affirm her. Encourage her RB, to do good things for herself. But even more important, you role model that. What good things are you going to do for yourself today? You just keep being the wonderful, amazing RB that you are.

PositivelyListening
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When one door of happiness closes, another one opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. - Helen Keller