Well, yes, PL, I know that they are still talking and emailing, etc, so there is still lots of contact and that will continue until she decides to end it (or he does).

I just don't know where I'm going to be when that happens. The A is now approaching its 1-year mark. We've only been married 6 years, and one of those has been with her in an affair.

I spent a lot of time yesterday with an attractive woman who seemed to enjoy my company as much as I enjoyed hers. It wasn't a "date", but it was really fun and I want to be able to do more of that, and I'm not willing to wait forever.

I'm getting close to the filing point, and I'm cool with that.


The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)