Well, patience is the thing, isn't it? Three weeks is a VERY short time. Think of that as the beginning for her. And that's only if she is having NO contact. It is possible he is still calling or writing to her. She will probably need 6 months with no contact to really get her head straight. So patience is the thing.
I hope I have not made you feel worse. My H is not even in the place of realizing there is a problem. He thinks his life is hunky dory and I am the only problem he's got - get rid of me, problem solved. It sucks. So you are in a much better situation than I am, if that makes you feel any better! But patience is the key! And how do you maintain patience and PMA? GAL, that's how! What are you going to do for yourself today?
Rooting for you RB
PositivelyListening ************************************** When one door of happiness closes, another one opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. - Helen Keller
