Quote: your position seems to be the one best suited to allow BOTH of you to find out more about who you are and finally DECIDE to be together.
Thanks, GH. I think that the point of her trying to make sure that we can be "friends" is that she is going to "need" me when OM is gone. Even if we could rebuild a marriage from that standpoint, it would still be based on her emotional need, rather than on love for me. Her "needing" me only makes the R about her selfish desires (which is what took her down the road she is on). I want a marriage built on love, not need, and I'm willing to wait for her to fix herself before we work on fixing the M. I'm also willing to take the chance that my marriage will end as a result of this, as I refuse to accept the old way.
Only 6 days until I move!
The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)