Quote: "W, I'm so excited about the new life that I'm starting right now. I'm really looking forward to a fresh start. I want you to be a part of that fresh start, and I'd love for you to make a fresh start with me, but that can only take place if you're willing to work on a marriage with me, because I love you too much to continue to be "just friends." Your smile completely lights me up inside, and holding you in my arms is the closest thing I know to Heaven, but a relationship of occasional smiles and hugs ultimately isn't satisfying. So, I'm going to ask that you give me space to have my own life and refrain from contacting me unless you need to discuss D4. Or, if you decide that you want to be my wife, let me know."
When read through the filter of...
Quote: My sitch is like few here in that my W has almost no anger toward me. I really think that some separation might help her miss me, as she's said "RB, I can't lose your friendship; it's something that I really have to have in my life."
and I think you may be on to something here. It seems like she won't be motivated by ANGER to pursue him, and the sitch will prevent that anyway so maybe your idea is the right one. I give you kudos for being strong enough to take that step should you choose to do so.
