Quote: What I'm saying here is perhaps YOU are driving too much contact and a 180 to that would be to go totally black on her. That's what I'd do if I were you. Not only for the sitch but for your own mental health.
I went very dark before and got good results in terms of my PMA and in terms of making her interested again. It was extremely hard to do, however, while living at her parents' house. With my own apartment (about 25 minutes away from her to boot), I won't have to worry about what to do if she's coming over, etc. The place I want is going to be available at the end of the month. When I move in, it will be time for a major reevaluation of my sitch and time to come up with a new plan.
The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)
