RB, not that it matters, but the OM is an idiot (or very immature)if he actually believes your W is committed. I know if I were in his shoes that every time she talks to you would put doubt in my mind and no I have never been the OM.
Like the others have stated, he is not the problem anyway, so no use thinking about it. It does take one obstacle out of your way of working on things with your W though.
"Our life is what our thoughts make it."
Marcus Aurelius