An interesting thing about depression is the way it can reverse. For me it was acceptance of the stuff JJ just talked about (imperfect are we). It was realization that my depression was MY reaction to OR and my W's actions. Once I identified the vicious cycle we were in, I realized there was only one choice and that was to get happy. I had to initiate this change in attitude. With happiness comes strength and some feeling of peace.
Ending your depression is YOUR choice. It may not fix your H's problems, but it will allow him to focus on him rather than on your freaking out or your depression. Stop giving him something to blame Lee.
