Hi RB, You are handling this all so well. I am very hopeful that OM's entrance into the military will be just the "break" you need. The quality of your time with W has been steadily improving, and I do think your W going to church with you is a very good thing. Do make sure to look out for her there, if there are judgemental folks around, but it is s good sign that she is venturing out with you, and to church especially now. I am very hopeful for you in your sitch. Mostly this is because I am seeing who you are being - a very strong, caring, loving person - a rock of stability for both your D and your W. They are lucky to have you.
I know it remains to be seen what level of addiction your W continues to have related to the A, or if it is just caretaking on her part until she can pass him along. I would venture to guess that she sees that her R with OM is unhealthy at least, and it seems that she is trying to make healthier choices, so that is good. You have provided such a blessing by leaving the path open to her for your M. Imagine the tragedy if it was not so. Keep up the good work. And take very good care of yourself right now. Your new job situation is such a great change, too. As always, I am rooting for you.
PositivelyListening ************************************** When one door of happiness closes, another one opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. - Helen Keller
