Lee, ******************************************** I'm so scared of divorce and of him dropping right out of my life, hating me. Counsellor told me "not to go there", because it hasn't happened. ******************************************** I can relate to that as I used to feel the same way. Then I realized what I was really afraid of. Financial ruin was on issue. But the real issue was about happiness. If W left me, I would become responsible for my own happiness. Yep! I found it ironic that a guy who did'nt marry until age 35 could become so overdependent.
It took 8 months of personal C sessions for me to fix this one.
