Wow, RB, wow. I don't read your thread for a few days, and you start a new one, and start dating your W, and wow. I am really impressed with all of the positive steps you have taken particularly with detaching in the past two weeks. You really let go, and now look at these results. It seems your W is beginning to take charge of her life, which she sorely needed to do. You will need to make sure that you continue to DB and remain lovingly detached. Don't get complacent or expect anything, as I expect there may be some more ups and downs in store. But meanwhile, enjoy the ups I am very proud of you. You are giving me hope for my sitch, in the midst of H's latest dissappearing act. So thanks for that too!

PositivelyListening
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When one door of happiness closes, another one opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. - Helen Keller