I'd be VERY curious to know if you started out each session like this... don't care where it's headed, don't need to O... let's just kind of hug and cuddle, maybe make out, maybe not..." and really, honestly, truly FELT that way... how it would all go....
Well, I have to say, if nothing else, it is breaking a bad habit of ours, which was to turn a failed ML session into a fight. Now, I feel like we are both more open to the "naked cuddle" approach. Less resentments and can really just Enjoy each other again. That is a huge improvement. So you were really on to something here Corri. A LOT of it has to do with mental attitude, and like I said, really being willing to break old patterns/ruts. I'm going to make a huge effort to keep this up.
