Feedback from H: He understands my desire to rebuild our sexual relationship from the heart and to go slow. He wanted to take advantage of the opportunity on Fri nite to ML because of all the feelings. He went on to say that it was the most fulfilling encounter we have ever had, and would trade and month's worth of sex for a session like that.

He said to save room for lottsa cuddles tonight. He is being sweet. He said he needs to keep the genitial tingles going but will not push for anything. I can tell he feels less pressure now that I have backed off from my spicy, demanding talk and am pushing the EC. I think it's a reverse psychology kind of thing...telling him we should slow down is upping his interest. We shall see.