yoyo girl, Do you recommend that I also read this book? If so, who is the author?
Yesterday I had another good day with my kids. I even cut the lawn so my H wouldn't have to. Every time I started to wonder where he was I put up the mental stop sign. It is really helping me to NOT think of him as a criminal. I don't tell him every single thing I do during the day, right? I know, he could very well be with HER but even if he is, there is really NOTHING that I can do about it.
In my mind and in my actions I have come to an acceptance. Of course, I wish this never happened but then I am putting the spotlight on me and my needs. My H was very unhappy and found a way to make himself happy. Now my mission in life is for him to find happiness with me again and he won't find it with a jailer.
P.S. It was really hot here yesterday and H was sleeping in boxers - MAN, is he sexy!!! I really hope that someday we can be together again.
