"Stop treating your H like a criminal whose always under investigation
In the book "Make Up, Don't Break Up"... it is stated that the NO.1 reason that WAS do not come back into their M is because of GUILT. And if we behave that our WAS are criminals, the GUILT will be festering and boiling like crazy... and that would be a catalyst to catapult them off from the nest!!! So, I second that we need to change our attitude to look to the present and future and not be obsessed with the A....... (Yup..know it is hard. hard. hard. My gf told me "you can think some..but don't voice it ever to your H. And since you have decided to want him back, you need to see the positive future!")
