For those that have been following my sitch, I updated on GH's thread yesterday.
I haven't started The Dance of Anger yet but am half way through How One of You Can Bring the Two of You Together and I have applied the principles I have learned so far. In just two days I have felt such a change in myself and my attitude which in turn as changed the way my H has been treating me.
Another thing that really hit home for me was something either UD or Always said to me, in so many words - "Stop treating your H like a criminal whose always under investigation" I know the A is not something I want in my life but I know absolutely nothing about it so I shouldn't really even think about it. But what I do know is if the tables were turned I definitely couldn't stand to live with someone who had my every move under a microscope and was interrogating me all the time. Then I think I would be singing "Time for my to Fly".
