Wow, I love you guys. No really, I do. You are straightforward and honest. I took UD's advice and went to the bookstore. Not only did I get "The Dance of Anger, A woman's guide to changing the patterns of intimate relationships", I also got "How One of you can bring the Two of you Together" by Susan Page. She seems to be on the same track as Michelle Weiner-Davis.
Controlling my "anger" is not only going to help in the R with my H but with my kids as well.
I was reading your posts to my girlfriend and she asked "How is your PMA now?" She expected me to say bad, but surprisingly it is good. I have a goal now and something tangible that I can reach - a happier me!
