Wow always_14, excellent! if y'all don't mind, I'm saving those thoughts for me, too.
Mama, you know we're not supposed to believe the things they say, and I always hear this re: "reconciliation" but it works when they're pushing us away, too. My H has repeatedly told me he is not attracted to me, in a variety of ways, but his actions don't reflect that at all...
UD and always have very good advice, things that need to change regardless of where our M's take us.
