Ok, so mama, I guess I missed something awhile back. I though he was done with OW. Do you KNOW he isn't, or do you just suspect he is not, and more importantly, have you two established that you are SUPPOSED to be in a relationship where honesty is a given? My point is that I made sure to get that on the table (thanks OT) a long time ago. I made sure that even if W was lying to me about OM, which I didn't really suspect, that she would committ to honesty from that point forward. That was more so that I could be honest with HER, not the other way around. That was so I could just straight out ASK her things that in DB we don't normally ask, specifically because we know they'll lie.
So I am just clarifying. HE said he was done with OW or not? You two are supposed to be honest with each other (again), or have you not really said that to each other? You believe him to still be with OW no matter what he says, right?