Thanks Rob and GH, Now I feel even worse for my actions yesterday. I'm such a wimp. I HATE confrontations, always have. Thus, people treat me like a doormat because they know I cannot say NO. I am so afraid of not being liked or being rejected. All relates to my childhood and never feeling like I was good enough in my Dad's eyes. Just wishing he would give me a compliment, just once, instead of always letting me know how much of a failure I am.
Hi ho, hi ho, it's back to the couselor I go
Make it a good day guys! GH, don't beat yourself up so much. I know how much it hurts to be rejected sexually by your spouse when every other part of your R with her seems pretty good. We are not in there heads, therefore we have no clue what they are feeling. We need to create an emotional environment where our spouse feels safe enough around us to actually open up and tell us there feelings, however honest and maybe painful they may be. Just my 2 cents.