Thanks GH. I think first I need to really figure out what passive/aggressive is. Since you say this is how I am, this could be something that I need to work on.
You are correct in the fact that I "let" him take the car knowing full well the possibility of OW getting a "ride" in it. But then again, as you pointed out, I don't KNOW anything. And really, even if I did, according to DB principles there is really is not much that I can do while fighting for my marriage when my H refuses to end his A.
So, I will start over today and not dwell on yesterday. I am here because I WANT to be - for now anyway -
