I have also started to do a little of this and like GH's wife my H seems only to TOLERATE it, not really enjoy it. I guess he has to face his own demons, i.e. feelings that he most likely still has for the OW as well as the guilt for hurting me. But, on the other hand - how long do I wait? It hurts to go to kiss someone only to have them turn and give you the cheek every time. Not being intimate for long periods of time is what led my H to having an A
