Question: If the reason for the A was our lack of a sex life (kids, self-esteem, bad timing, too tired, etc.) how do I change this? We have not been intimate in 7 months. H gets up at 3:30 a.m. to go to work, therefore he goes to bed super early (lots of times while kids are still up). Do I talk to him about this? It seems like there is never a good time. Do I get up at 3:30 and initiate? I feel like I need to talk to him about this but I don't want to come off as pursuing.
