You know what, this board is like my IV, my lifeline. I am very computer illiterate but I can't seem to stay away from here for too long. I can get support from my "happily" married friends and family but no one knows what I am feeling except for you guys. Thank you so much for tuning into my drama, in the midst of your drama. I really feel that we all might have made some drastic decisions had we not found this website. It makes us feel not so alone, that a lot of couples are having problems. Fighting FOR our marriage is a very difficult and COURAGOUS thing to do. I commend each and everyone of you. You and I are all such strong and wonderful people. If in the end things don't work out, that's ok. We now have so much more knowledge. Even if we start a new R, nothing in this life is for sure besides death and taxes. Make every day a TERRIFIC one! Be happy, do not dwell on the negative things, count all of your blessings, no matter how small they may seem.