Girl, I hope we'll be laughing about a LOT in the future, and maybe even the events of 2005/2006!
DEFINATELY hang out. At first it was hard for me, kinda annoying to hang with friends. I felt like it was so much effort to distract myself from my misery. Then, I realized how nice it felt. I still force myself, but it comes more naturally.
Don't feel guilty, think of it as "alone time with dad" for the kids. Also, I honestly come back refreshed and calmer after the outings, which is always nice for H!
From now on, give us updates on all the fun you're having in life.
I sure am glad to have you as a friend as well....thanks so much for your kind words and advice on my thread (which needs an updating!), it helps more than you know.