Thanks for checking in Always. You "always" come up with really great ideas. Two weeks ago I reconnected with a lifelone friend of mine. We were best friends for 25 years but 2 years ago I decided I couldn't be friends with her anymore (long story), anyhow she heard some rumors that my marriage might be in trouble and called me up to offer her friendship. We put the past behind us, I told her what was done is water under the bridge. I told her about my sitch and she is VERY supportive.
Her and I plan on doing lots with the kids this summer. I am definitely going to start working out again. I was doing this DVD "Firm, flat abs fast" over the winter and it really worked. Tomorrow morning I will get up early and start doing it again. When you feel good about yourself, it really makes a huge difference in your attitude.
Quote: Maybe a few more weeks of good vibes and nice, peaceful, neutral times together are in order to build that "feel good" foundation
I believe this is where we are at. I believe H really needs to get OW out of his system. I don't want to push him. He needs time to reflect on what is happening in our lives. He needs to feel sadness, grief, guilt or remorse. I want us to reconnect sexually when we are BOTH ready. I've waited this long.......
