Any updates to Saturday and the rest of the weekend? Go out of town? Let us know how you're doing. Inquiring minds want to know.
I have found that it's only when you get absolutely to wits end, swearing that you can't do this for 1 more minute, that things come around a little, and you realize that you CAN do it for another minute. Damn.
Just continue to detach. Remember, NO expectations....NOTHING. You are detached, not expecting anything, he is a friend....no disappointments. It's hard when you have kids who need their dad, and I can understand that too.