Is there still hope???

[BeingMe]

JF, it's the strangest thing, but my sitch is similar to yours, in that, once I told my H that he can have his D (I also couldn't stand the lies - I am a very honest person, and feel really strongly about that), and that I want it too, and started detaching (i.e. moved him out of our bedroom, etc.), he suddenly started having all those old feelings for me again. I decided to give it another try, and it's been more than year since, but I still don't fully trust him, and doubt I ever will. And, maybe that's a good thing. Should we ever trust anyone completely? Maybe I have become a little cynical about life, but I am glad I am not so naive anymore, and so trusting.

Anyway, give it some serious thought, and give it at least a couple of weeks before you give her your answer. Let her sweat it out a little. It is good to know that you will be okay, no matter what, 'eh?!