Today I got proof beyond a shadow of a doubt that my W's A with the OM still exists, despite her Acadamy Award winning promise to me that she would not carry on any relationships outside our M while we worked on it becasue that wouldn't be fair to me. LOL and I bought it hook line and sinker.
Anyway, I am about to just give up after 4 months of blood sweat and tears, but before I do I would like to hear from anyone that has managed to put it back together even after your spouse has completely detached from you both emotionally and physically and just would not let the OM/OW go.
I haven't felt that there was much progress if any at all with my efforts even though I've been told I'm doing all the right things. Today just showed me why I've not seen any change. It's becasue the outside influence still exists and everything I accomplish over the weekend and evenings gets blown away in 15 minutes with the OM.
So, does anyone have some words of encouragement, because I am just ever so close to the edge of the cliff and thinking about making the leap across the canyon.
