Hi Lee - I'm new here but not to what you are going through. My hunband (this is my second marriage) have been going through the same thing. You could have been writing about me. I just wanted to say hang in there. Sounds like you are doing all the right stuff. I've been trying all the same stuff some have worked and some have not. My H is finally thinking about moving back. I haven't even respomded to that yet. Not sure how I will.

I don't have too much time to write now I'm at work but I wanted to let you know I'm proud of you and your post has inspired me too. Take care of you and God Bless.

jean