Quote: It is always God's will that a marriage be restored.
I believe this is true. I know I must trust my faith and trust God. As I hear on Sundays, God is good, all the time.
Quote: SHE however, having free will, can choose to walk contrary to that.
Herein lies the rub. I know I must trust God, and hope that my W is both open to see/hear His will and be willing to act on Truth.
NOTE: Last night my W met with an old GF (one where the R was not severed on good terms. My W began telling me about her interaction as positive. I interrupted her and told her I did not agree with her rekindling that friendship, as I remembeer it from before. My W told me that her GF had become a devout Christian in the past 6 years. My W also told me that people can change; YOU of all people should know that. I told her that I hope she gets what she is looking for in rekinkling that friendship and told her that I was only concerned for her. She said she know.
On my way to my sister's house I called her back, and told her that I needed to tell her that after some reflection, I had changed my mind. I have interacted with some people who claim to be "devout" believers who are the most judgemental people I have run across.
I told my W that what she said stuck with me. That people can change. I told her that I believed that people can and DO change and that I would not be opposed to listening to my W about her R with her GF. One of my thoughts was that if her GF is truly a devout Christian, perhaps her GF will have a positive impact on my sitch. Perhaps the GF coming back into her life is a sign of God's will. I don't know, but it's certainly a possibility.
One last item, my W asked me to take our children for awhile on Saturday to help her out. My inclination is to do it. My hesitation is that that would be "more of the same." I don't know. I am soooo confused. Ugh.
Ugh.