GH, kind sir. You are always there to prop me up against the wall so I can keep on standing up for myself, my M, my W, my family, and to be the man that God always intended me to be.
Quote: You are not going to give up so put that out of your mind. You know that and I know that.
You, sir, are so right.
Quote: Secondly, I hate to comfort you on the point of cheating because it's really the one think I DON'T like about you but I will anyway because of all the other things I think I DO like about you.
The same thing you don't like about me, I don't like about me. Unfortunately, I have to live with the aftermath of my A-bomb.
Quote: ...I don't see much difference between that and what she may or may not be doing "out late" with her "friends".
I was wondering if anyone felt the same (or similar) way about what she is planning and doing and what I did? I know what I did was wrong. I am working to NOT pass judgement on what she is doing. It is her right. {quote]This is not a tit-for-tat contest but from where I sit, that's what she's doing and is sucks.
It feels that way for me, too. But...what can I do except display patience, understanding, and DB power.
I know that we are not even. I dropped the A-bomb on her and completely destroyed her belief that I am a husband she can count on and trust. It does seem like she is trying to "even the score" with her behavior now, though. Well, I know that I must "buck up", stay off the pity pot, be a man and be strong.
Quote: I think your campaign of self-improvement and patience WILL pay off. I have to believe that because this path of destruction she's on should give out sooner or later...hopefully sooner.
Amen, brother. I will work on strengthening my resolve, patience, love and chin. I will work on thickening my skin. And, of course, I will work on GAL and improving myself to be the man that God always intended me to be.
Quote: Keep your chin up, pray, read and pick yourself up. You've done it before and you'll do it 1000 more times before it's all said and done.
