Thank you, my friend. You did much more than sic Amy on me. You provide your own insight, perspective, well-respected direction, advice and encouragement.
I will try to figure out the which "over the top" behaviors you were talking about and temper them. Most likely my "over the top" behaviors were my efforts to improve my own PMA, not to directly persuade my W. I certainly do not want to do anything to push the D process along any faster and make it reach teh final and undesirable conclusion that I am trying to DB.
I am striving to give my W the time and space she needs to resonsider the path she chose so hastily (hastily IMO).
Thanks again for your encouragement, GH. I always look forward to your take on my sitch.
