I once again have to agree with the wise ol' grasshopper here. HH, I've been following your sitch pretty closely, but really haven't posted very much because you really seem to have a handle on things. Mainly, I love your PMA and your committment to loving your W from a distance until such time that she sees her way back to you. You nailed the R converstation dead on. Honestly, I believe lesser men would have just decided that enough was enough and moved on....but you stay focused.
Keep up the great work and keep posting on your progress.
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu