P.S. There may often be times, too, when there are shifts between who is actually the lower or higher desire partner. It "could" possibly vary at any given time, and under various circumstances. But again, if there's a lot of "pigeon holing" going on, this may go unnoticed. This might be something to pay more attention to in your relationship.
JJ
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