Quote: I hate to see you or anyone else take that attitude.
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Oh... that wasn't a "well... I'm just going to take my ball and go home!" statement I made. Sometimes... I AM reluctant to post because I really AM in a different place, with a different perspective. I"m not in the middle of all those intense R issues anymore... and because my stress levels are not through the roof anymore, I DO see things differently.
But other people's stress levels are, and that does not invalidate their feelings. I just know from personal experience that negative thoughts/expressions... even when you can't see them yourself... tend to feed themselves and morph out of control... escalate the stress levels even higher. THAT is to what I was referring... because I can, in fact, SEE it. I'm not judging anyone. That was not my intent.
