I'm sorry if I came on here as venting and trying to upset anyone. My "venting" about my problem has helped me see things a little different. Getting advice from others here helped me in my SSM. Even if I only posted a few times. Made me wake up and see some of the things I may have been doing to make my marriage a SSM. Took the things you all had to say and used it to the best I could in my marriage. It wasn't a fix all, but it's helped. Talked a few things with my H, got a few things off our chest. And we are both willing to try hard to be more attentive towards each other. My H said he had a feeling that something was wrong, but to afraid to ask. I so was I. So, to end things on a positive note, I also got "Lucky". Really, really, "LUCKY".
