Poison

[MJontheMend]

I gotta chuckle. I think it is a fcking roar and a half when you all throw it in my face that I'm D. Can someone here please come up with something new?

I don't understand where you see me throwing it in your face that you are D in my post. I was just trying to point out that you didn't exactly object , for instance, when people were posting things like "Man, what a disrespectful *sshole!" in response to some of your posts about your H. If you are trying to make the point that you wish that you hadn't given any validity to that kind of feedback, then I respect the advice that you are offering.

The fact that I was seemingly "happy" when I came back to the BB and then quickly became seemingly "unhappy" in short order, has more to do with the fact that I am a ridiculously wishy-washy, impressionable person than any inherent shortcomings of the BB. The funny thing is that this BB is actually more pro- my marriage than most of the people who actually know my H and me and offer me any sort of advice in real life. This definitely includes many people who have no clue about our sexual problems and just wonder how I put up with his generally negative PITA attitude and behavior. I will be very interested to see how an objective marriage counselor will view things.