Corri I think you usually give great advice. And I would never throw it in your face that you are D. But you have to admit, that as a D woman, you are able to see things very differently than most people on this board, simply because you're "on the other side" now. Yelling at people to knock it off when they are not walking in your shoes just doesn't always work. As a separated woman who IF I chose to stay separated started coming on here and basically say get off your pity pot, there's a whole world out there, go have fun, blah blah, I think it would be out of line. But that's me. And you know what. I agree with you! I'm spending this entire upcoming weekend packed with fun things, girl's night out included. Just because you see one part of our lives on this board does not mean we are constantly in "boo hoo" land. I have a very fulfilling life and happy to be M to my H. We just need to work on some issues that ARE IMPORTANT TO ME. I decide what those issues are, not anyone else. And if a hot sex life with plenty of O's is part of my vision, you don't have the right to tell me or anyone else that they are wrong. The way you are coming across is that we are looking for something that just ain't gonna happen so move on and find some "peace between the sheets." I'm glad that is working for you but it's not a one fits all mold. And don't lump everyone in together. I have never bashed anyone's S and it really pisses me off that you think I'm "aiding" in Brian's misery. I told Brian to talk to his C about it and if he was not comfortable with him, find a new one. What is wrong with that? I didn't say get rid of him. If anything I said work with him to figure it out, Cobra told him not to discuss it with the C or his W.
why pee on other people's parades? What do YOU gain out of popping up and b!tching on other people's threads... My thoughts exactly.
