Corri, Thanks. That's exactly what I was looking for. I've been searching myself to figure out how I got so far off the track. You know what it is? It is the ridiculous hours I've been working trying to get out from under a pile of work I took on not realizing that it was all black-holes from He!!. The work is still there, the customers are getting more insistent, and I'm close to a breaking point...so what part did I drop, my R of course. WRONG MOVE. I didn't even realize I had done it.

OK, so it sounds like it is date night then. Put away the work, it'll still be there tomorrow, take MrsGGB out and jsut talk about anything other than work, household chores/projects or the kids. Don't think about sex, think about all the stuff about her that I love, and tell her what I'm thinking. 'Zat sound about right?