Awww, come on Corri Why so drained? I for one have been smiling and I'm still dealing with all my sh!t. I like this board. It feels good to talk to other people in similar situations. Cobra just brought up similar comments on Brian's thread. I'm well aware we all use this board to complain sometimes. So what? This isn't a therapy group. It's a support group (sort of). We don't really know each other from a hill of beans. We make each other laugh, cry, and lots more. If people need to "stay postitive" and/or "work on serious FOO issues" non-stop, then maybe this isn't the board for THEM. I tend to like all the different perspectives and "camps" if you will, but I don't want to live in one camp or the other, I like to jump around. My 2 cents.